Don’t Blame Yourself, Move On-Mufti Menk

The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) says, work hard towards achieving what you believe is beneficial for you. I need a job, work hard towards it. use the capacity the almighty has give you to achieve it. you are not well, go to the doctor. go and do something about it.
you wanna get married. Start meeting people. Get up and do something, talk to this one that one, try things, dont just sit and say, i believe in the almighty, allah.